英语翻译In choosing a friend,one should be very careful.A good friend can help you study.You can have fun together and make each other happy.Sometimes you will meet fairweather friends.① They will be with you as long as you have money or luc

英语翻译
In choosing a friend,one should be very careful.A good friend can help you study.You can have fun together and make each other happy.Sometimes you will meet fairweather friends.① They will be with you as long as you have money or luck,but when you are down,they will run away.How do I know when I have found a good friend?I look for certain qualities (品质) of character,especially understanding,honesty and reliability (可靠).
Above all else,I look for understanding in a friend.A good friend tries to understand how another person is feeling.He is not quick to judge.Instead,he tries to learn from others.He puts himself in the other person's place,and he tries to think of ways to be helpful.He is also a good listener.
At the same time,however,a good friend is honest.He does not look for faults (过错) in others.He notices their good points.In short,a friend will try to understand me and accept me.②
Another quality of a friend is reliability.I can always depend on (信赖) a good friend.If he tells me he will meet me somewhere at a certain time,I can be sure that he will be there.If I need a favor,he will do his best to help me.If I am in trouble,he will not run away from me.
There is a fourth quality that makes a friend special.A special friend is someone with whom we can have fun.③ We should enjoy our lives,and we would enjoy our friendship.That is why I especially like friends who are fun to be with.A good friend likes the same things I like.We share experience (经验) and learn from each other.A good friend has a good sense of humor (幽默),too.He likes to laugh with me.That is how we share in the joy of being friends.And I know that he is looking for the same quality in me.
When I meet someone who is reliable,honest,and understanding,I know I've found a friend!

人们在选择朋友方面应该慎重考虑.一个真正的朋友可以帮助你学习.你们可以互帮互助,让对方快乐.有时你可能遇见酒肉朋友,那些只是因为你的钱或者好运而和你在一起,但当你落魄的时候,他们就会立刻离开.那么,我怎样知道我是否找到了一个真正的朋友呢?我会通过他身上某些特定的性格和品质来确定,尤其是在理解、忠诚和可靠行方面.
就像之前说的那样,我寻找朋友的标准之一是互相理解.一个真正的朋友会尝试理解对方的感受.他不会轻易评价,他会试图从对方身上学习.通过站在对方的立场上,他会尽力思考可以对对方有帮助的解决方法.他同时也是一个良好的倾听者.
同时,一个真正的朋友是诚实的.他并不针对对方的过错,而是发现对方身上的闪光点.简单来说,朋友会尝试理解并接受我的全部.
另外一个朋友的品质是可靠性.我总是可以信赖真正的朋友.如果我们约定在某个地方见面,我可以确信他会准时出现.如果我需要人帮助,他会尽最大的努力来帮助我.如果我遇到了麻烦,他也不会从我身边离开.
让一个朋友变得特别的是这第四个品质.一个特别的朋友是和你在一起会开心快乐的人.我们不仅需要享受我们的人生,还要享受我们的友谊.这就是我特别喜欢那些能给人带来快乐的朋友的原因.真正的朋友会爱我所爱,我们会分享经验、互相学习,他也是很有幽默感的,他会喜欢和我一起开怀大笑,这是我们分享作为朋友的乐趣的方式.而且我知道他也在找寻我们之间的相似之处.
当我遇见那些可信赖,诚实以及理解我的人时,我就知道我找到了真正的朋友.